tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post1351801469126328917..comments2024-01-05T08:23:27.097+05:30Comments on Musings: Wisecrackanilkurup59http://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-21721700849533178852011-10-13T13:32:05.135+05:302011-10-13T13:32:05.135+05:30@ Happy Kitten,
Well you are right.
Some throw t...@ Happy Kitten,<br /><br />Well you are right. <br />Some throw their laundry from home and elsewhere ,outside on others . If I vent I prefer to to vent my frustrations at home , certainly not sending plates flying but by releasing the heat to the ones who love us for what we are.<br />I do not think I would do that on an unassuming stranger or a third person.anilkurup59https://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-86476222112010273402011-10-13T12:48:13.372+05:302011-10-13T12:48:13.372+05:30Hope everything is fine now.....
I think we becom...Hope everything is fine now.....<br /><br />I think we become the real person with our spouse more often than others... but then who else will put up with our moods :).. not your neighbour or your colleague... even a friend can be hurt and find no means to heal the hurt.Happy Kittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14406399936808407736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-78966853801136064972011-10-09T19:55:38.539+05:302011-10-09T19:55:38.539+05:30@ Insignia,
Ummm you are quite privy much now, be...@ Insignia,<br /><br />Ummm you are quite privy much now, because of the blog.<br /><br />See the two instances on the domestic front , never became an issue for either of us. In fact we both saw the matter lightly and as fun. In fact the la' affaire coffee was no affaire at all to us.And the matter is narrated in jest even now. Why I mentioned this was the provocation was more than external was C's casually irritating demeanour , I guess. She was deftly fanning my helplessness.<br />The point I wanted to highlight was what ever may the travails and laundry that we bring from outside gets dumped at home. I have not thrown that on a friend or an outsider.<br /><br />@ NRIGirl,<br /><br />These matters are still reminisced by us ( I and C) in jest. <br />It is only when we see that the other has seen through our façade or demeanour that we get provoked and rude; shout from roof top that we are pilloried unjustly.<br />As I mentioned why fret if some calls you names if you know that the names make no bearing on your self?<br /><br />I will certainly see your post.<br /><br /><br />@ KParthasarathi,<br /><br />Thank you for the appreciation. Just a whiff of dust , I do not see myself much.<br />You are right anger brings forth more of the kind and nothing better.<br />To speak truth in a way that dose not hurt- well truth is glaring that the slightest pinch of it may provoke anger. don't you think so. The fact that is missed out here I feel is the argumentative tradition. There is no room for discussion , debate and arguments. That is quite a misfortune, friend or foe, parent or child , husband or wife!<br /><br />@ Juxtaposition,<br /><br />Click ignore. Yes indeed in a way yes. But I guess if a point is raised by a close companion rather prod it why? than ignore it wholesale. <br />Well my opinion and may be wrong in another persons outlook. So do as one wish, but do it with no harm to the other and self. Don't you think so?<br /><br />Certainly,in my case I do give much points to C for putting up.We have only been distressed about the other because of a solitary matter and that was cunningly fanned by some one close to her and, me by wedlock. And the tremors we experience even now is because of the person and the retinue.anilkurup59https://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-19180034719003017182011-10-09T19:23:34.082+05:302011-10-09T19:23:34.082+05:30I just feel sad that throwing coffee over the wife...I just feel sad that throwing coffee over the wife and throwing the omelet plate, is treated with not much importance here. For example, would you keep quiet and take it if C had done these things to you. Would you accept that these frustrations are because of WORK or WHATEVER. From one temperamental person to another, the art of meditation helps. The other thing that works is "CLICK IGNORE". Things that matter are relationships and feelings and absolutely nothing else. Need to be careful with these.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-22560195499644883012011-10-09T10:08:15.968+05:302011-10-09T10:08:15.968+05:30Let me at the outset express my admiration for the...Let me at the outset express my admiration for the wonderful writing.I was lost in the beauty of the writing ,that the content was missed in the initial reading.I had to read again for getting the message.<br /><br />I strongly believe in the dictum<br /><br />satyam bruyat priyam bruyat na bruyat satyam apriyam<br />priyam ca nanrutam bruyat esha dharmah sanatanah<br /><br />Speak truth in such a way that it should be pleasing to others. Never speak truth, which is unpleasant to others. Never speak untruth, which might be pleasant. This is the path of eternal morality, sanatana dharma<br /><br />The stress is on priyam or hitam.<br />It is in telling pleasantly even if provoked.Anger, I have seen in my four score years has never fetched any result except bruised relationships and missed opportunities..KParthasarathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189924874350906456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-26291592099232669822011-10-08T23:15:40.935+05:302011-10-08T23:15:40.935+05:30If she/he is a true friend, the friendship could w...If she/he is a true friend, the friendship could withstand the misplaced punctuation marks or even the overthrown omelette. <br /><br />On the other hand if they were to hang on to it, that's their call and we can't do much about it. <br /><br />Any case you owe a big hug and the 'n'th sorry to C the next time!<br /><br />I had written in similar lines titled <a href="http://hephzibahisrael.blogspot.com/2010/11/lost-in-translation.html" rel="nofollow">Lost in translation</a> you may check it out at leisure...NRIGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02709704269988589729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-11321499237026905482011-10-08T22:06:04.878+05:302011-10-08T22:06:04.878+05:30I think I know which 'friend' you are refe...I think I know which 'friend' you are referring to.<br /><br />Yeah, a word, a punctuation, the tone all that could make a drastic difference to what was intended.<br /><br />If it were with your close friends, with your people, your folks; then you can be apologetic and hope things will get back to normal. Thats kinda tough in professional arena where we are bound by codes of personal conduct and business conduct.<br /><br />You mentioned of an incident where you poured coffee on your wife's head. I am sure you guys made up later. If that were in an office; unless you own the company; you cant get away with it.<br /><br />So does it mean we take our folks for granted? Hell!! yes. Sad but yes; we do take them granted. Thats ok; we need not be prim and proper everywhere. Chill :)Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-5908356205772784502011-10-08T22:05:10.751+05:302011-10-08T22:05:10.751+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.com