tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post6102391714150478844..comments2024-01-05T08:23:27.097+05:30Comments on Musings: A Matter of Charcteranilkurup59http://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-6379553654263812682012-01-28T13:44:29.775+05:302012-01-28T13:44:29.775+05:30In present times, maintaining relationship is one ...In present times, maintaining relationship is one of the hardest task in life. Even if you go the extra mile, it becomes a futile attempt or it becomes a habit that fits only you. But if such families exists today, I hope they serve as a good example.. but I think it will soon be extinct. In the first place, only a few dare make more than 2 or maybe even 1 child. <br /><br />and the following is very true..<br /><br />It is a selfish self centred world he emphasised and that expressions of togetherness and affection are superficial. They are always determined by situations that are measured in personal gains and losses.Happy Kittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14406399936808407736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-26961928229533032002012-01-27T22:02:03.855+05:302012-01-27T22:02:03.855+05:30I am honestly surprised myself Anil. Because human...I am honestly surprised myself Anil. Because humans are so complex; we guard ourselves even when in company of one person. To be able to remain together and genuinely liking each other in a group as big as what you mentioned...wow! factor.Insigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-39180666896374916632012-01-27T07:29:46.684+05:302012-01-27T07:29:46.684+05:30More than anything it is the "wave length&quo...More than anything it is the "wave length" that needs to match for any type of get together - family, friends or otherwise - this is from my observations...NRIGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02709704269988589729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-26658106482949036922012-01-26T22:08:58.219+05:302012-01-26T22:08:58.219+05:30Times have changed and we too have changed. It is ...Times have changed and we too have changed. It is good to hear that there are still people enjoying being together, maybe for a short while it is okay, but in the long run it may not be possible. Getting along with parents / children itself has become a problem, living with a whole lot of relatives, is surely asking for trouble. Even in olden days when it was the norm to be within the joint family there was always friction, but since times were so, that they could do nothing much about it then, but times have changed the situation too changed and we have adapted ourselves to this new reality.<br />Still if it works for some people well and good.Rama Ananthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-83559540655095777962012-01-26T12:03:43.185+05:302012-01-26T12:03:43.185+05:30Living together in a joint family has its own adva...Living together in a joint family has its own advantages.But, with changing times,privacy must also be recognisedBK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-12446424706172625202012-01-26T09:47:46.060+05:302012-01-26T09:47:46.060+05:30Well, I must say I have a lot learn from you.
on ...Well, I must say I have a lot learn from you.<br /><br />on a other note... again its choice of the person who see glass half empty or full.<br /><br /><br />because both way its truth.Makkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14012915183456139011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-36592316045043422512012-01-26T06:46:46.477+05:302012-01-26T06:46:46.477+05:30I agree with Partha sir. We are not able to bring ...I agree with Partha sir. We are not able to bring our brother in law for a family get together which was such natural phenomenon some years ago.adithyasaravanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04825145071391338927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-46385535435001625442012-01-25T22:18:27.036+05:302012-01-25T22:18:27.036+05:30Wonderfully observant stuff.Wonderfully observant stuff.Felicity Grace Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17852843882007267665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-10808780151404893112012-01-25T21:31:05.506+05:302012-01-25T21:31:05.506+05:30Your friend is right.Once differences crop up in w...Your friend is right.Once differences crop up in wealth,status or alliance to affluent families or where there is divison of property that is perceived as not equitable, all the bondness and bonhomie disappears.Even when there are no such difference, if there is a clash of personalities amongst the distaff side, the relationships suffer after the bonding figure like a mom or dad pass awayKParthasarathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189924874350906456noreply@blogger.com