tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post6794062715561509258..comments2024-01-05T08:23:27.097+05:30Comments on Musings: Of Husbands & Wivesanilkurup59http://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-71587914745206508202013-07-21T12:37:40.221+05:302013-07-21T12:37:40.221+05:30@ Happy Kitten,
@adityasaravanan
@rudraprayag
@Ush...@ Happy Kitten,<br />@adityasaravanan<br />@rudraprayag<br />@Usha Menon<br />@rama<br />@B.K.Chowla<br />@ NRIGirl<br />@ Insignia<br />Thank you all for the comments.<br />NRIG's observation is worth thinking about.Indeed as most of you agree marriages are not perfect, it is how much we work to make it better.<br /><br />@ Sukupedia,<br /><br />Thank you for coming here and commenting.<br />I do agree with what you said it is all matter of striving. Hope to see you often commentinganilkurup59https://www.blogger.com/profile/07961961217418715354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-391352337729162292013-07-20T21:20:29.469+05:302013-07-20T21:20:29.469+05:30:) Sleep over the fight and disagreements :) Well,...:) Sleep over the fight and disagreements :) Well, it can't be perfect all times and good to accept itInsigniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819054091062923489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-79284201689385536432013-07-19T19:40:21.310+05:302013-07-19T19:40:21.310+05:30All the times I have felt "unloved" in o...All the times I have felt "unloved" in our marriage is only when I didn't love him enough. The other times when I feel much loved is when I love him much.<br /><br />It is "I" who makes it or breaks it. It won't be nice to blame it on him. <br /><br />Same is true for happiness. It is us who determine if we are happy or sad - not any external forces, including our spouses...NRIGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02709704269988589729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-11910025195684900412013-07-17T17:58:15.210+05:302013-07-17T17:58:15.210+05:30Most successful marriages are the ones where both ...Most successful marriages are the ones where both have gracefully made adjustments.<br />BK Chowla,https://www.blogger.com/profile/03869011550287421537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-42379697179581953062013-07-16T18:57:31.337+05:302013-07-16T18:57:31.337+05:30Perfect marriage is just a dream. In the beginning...Perfect marriage is just a dream. In the beginning everything seems to be perfect, like a new car, but like any other things if we don't take care of our marriage it is bound to slide down.<br />However, I do feel if we took good care of it , it would last till death do us part. It needs constant servicing just like a car.<br />It is in our hands, how we keep the things we like, nobody can do it for us.Rama Ananthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-82877929157410713422013-07-16T18:04:11.944+05:302013-07-16T18:04:11.944+05:30Marriage is a sort of adjustment between two indiv...Marriage is a sort of adjustment between two individuals.In every marriage there are differences of opinion . No two individuals are alike. Therefore there can be no standard formula for success. We have been married for 54 years and I can frankly say that we never had any quarrels. Only minor arguments.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682758228934966786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-22939877254364373982013-07-16T15:07:21.186+05:302013-07-16T15:07:21.186+05:30n the olden times the males enthroned themselves a...n the olden times the males enthroned themselves as kings in the family-kingdom whereas the wife was an obedient servant fulfilling all needs of the former.But now the lingual and fiscal power dominate in the bond.Adjustments and adaptation many a time are driven away from the family.rudraprayagahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13775039913655864157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-40311120866347846102013-07-16T15:06:03.006+05:302013-07-16T15:06:03.006+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.rudraprayagahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13775039913655864157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-17678280881013214262013-07-16T14:38:41.008+05:302013-07-16T14:38:41.008+05:30Man and woman have different mental design. If no...Man and woman have different mental design. If not for the sensual desires, they make up for bad friends. Like oiling the wheel , both have to ease out their differences in a constant basis..when some couple tell that their 's is perfect and that they don't fight., I advice them to talk out their differences. It is painful if someone voices out long after marriage..I know of people who physically fight with each other , but put a comely behavior outside. adithyasaravanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04825145071391338927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-28082837550986341832013-07-16T02:54:32.742+05:302013-07-16T02:54:32.742+05:30I agree that while dating people are on a differen...I agree that while dating people are on a different tangent than when they are married.. but the truth is that marriage requires a smooth integration of both the worlds..rules and regulations are not a solution.. but the integration should be based on peace, listening, talking and wanting the same goal in a family life... I call it committement... a thought provoking post :)SuKupedia ™ :) :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09453745330932633801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4448802533825615490.post-24227632576635219992013-07-15T20:15:52.650+05:302013-07-15T20:15:52.650+05:30Fights, disagreements nd respect for each other...Fights, disagreements nd respect for each other's opinion makes an okay marriage. I m sure there r no perfect marriages :)Happy Kittenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14406399936808407736noreply@blogger.com