Monday, July 19, 2010

Twinkle



It is very difficult to observe the twinkle in the eyes. The gleam is come and gone at fraction of a split second. Certainly there must have been instances when all of us have had the twinkle in the eyes. The twinkle is not in relation to euphoria,it dose not persist, but it is the subtle acknowledgement of satisfaction and happiness. And also soulful appreciation, of this, words cannot express. It does not stay as sparkle in the eye for minutes. The heart takes over the spark. And the eyes are as usual thereafter. It gleams in the eyes like the water bubble that surfaces for a brief second and then transforms into gentle waves that acknowledges the reason for the sparkle.


I once read an article of Nithya Chaithanya Yethi in the Kalakaumudhi . Therein he dwelled on the expression of affection. He says in the West expressions are physically dominant. It is kiss on the cheeks, on the lips, a warm and close hug etc etc. Be it to your mother, girlfriend, sister, wife or acquaintance! This he also acknowledges is frowned upon in India. We do not express animated love and affection with our limbs and facial contractions. Be it in public or private.. To emphasis the point he mentioned an instance where the deep love and affection for his sister and for her to him was conveyed through the twinkle in the eyes of their both. This was when he landed back in India after a long sojourn in foreign lands and his sister was at the airport to receive him. He said there was no hug, no pat, no hand shake no kisses. The subtle affection was in their eyes and each could notice it and be enlivened.

The other night Ara was going back to Chennai and it was about the time he was leaving the house. I was speaking to my friend Balan and told him that Ara was leaving. I called Ara and told him there was a phone call and asked him to speak. He was in hurry and expressively did not want to be on phone. He frowned and waved to me that he will take the call some other time. I told him it was Balan maman. And I saw for a moment the flash and sparkle in his eyes- “the twinkle” He ran up to me and took the phone.
(I cannot recall if I ever gleamed when my father’s friends wanted to speak to me).

Apart from all that it is amazing what a pair of eyes can convey and I wonder if there is any other organ that can spark and tell a thousand stories of happiness at a shot.

6 comments:

RGB said...

"If eyes could speak..."
Like you said, it does. Whether joy, love, grief, mischief, anger, gratitude or whatever the emotion, the eye is the instant giveaway even if the person doesn't translate it into words. The twinkle in the eyes can spread the message of love and mirth in just a flash of the second.

Insignia said...

Eyes are the windows to the world and doors to our soul. They exhibit wide variety of emotions, when words fail.

What the eyes project are true emotions and they dont stay for long. Beautifully expressed.

Sandy said...

I love your analogy in the writing titled Twinkle. Yet, as you say, it is so different here....

A New Beginning said...

Anil do you know anything about the girls snap youve published...she was a little afghani girl when the national geographic ppl took her snap and then years later they traced her and she looked the same though a little older..it was hard to trace her coz they observe purdah.....theres a whole story attached to her.
And youre right about eyes..they are a huge window to the world within!

anilkurup59 said...

Hello Sana,
Oh ye I have both the the Geo graphics in my collection of the magazine. Captivating, haunting, unforgettable. The green eyes tell a host load of emotions.

amalg999 said...

It has been said that we can change the shape of our face, color and what-not, but no matter what we do, the eyes remain the same ! (unless, of course, if both the eyes are transplanted!). A person's eye is said to reflect his inner self !